It’s that time of the year to start planning vacations. I personally took a lot of vacations by myself to explore and enjoy the many great vacation spots the U.S. has to offer. I really enjoyed taking in the scenery, but felt kind of lost when seeking places to find women. I was unfamiliar with where the “hot spots” were to meet single women.

The movie is funny and does get the audience going from time to time. Throughout the movie there were very few moments where the laughter was truly a belly-hurting laugh. Most of the time the laughs were from semi-funny jokes.

Is there ever a time when you should consider reconnecting? Does putting an end to the relationship always mean it’s finished, and that you should close the book?

What did you think of “What Happened to Frederick?” Were you a little disappointed after last week’s awesome episode? Did you expect a more happy escort agency from the Mary/David storyline? Were you surprised by the Fairytale twist this week?

Be sure and keep yourself in prime condition. Keep your appearance nice and trim, while staying in shape and taking care of yourself. We tend to let ourselves go when we get comfortable in relationships. Stay as physically attractive as possible, as this will keep her interest peaked, and will make your gestures even more romantic.

Tease the Senses: Don’t over do the fragrance. Your scented candles mixed with a provocative perfume could overpower him, in a bad way. Opt for the non-scented candles, or choose a basic vanilla or rose scented perfume. Your romantic date should please the nose but don’t forget to play some soft tunes in the background.

As important as this commitment might be to you, remember that he probably doesn’t feel the same. Many men’s views of a commitment are negative. While you might want to gain security, companionship, family and affection, he sees all he’ll lose; his buddies, nights out with friends, Monday night football. These might sound trivial to you, which is actually a part of the problem.

Last thing, don’t mess up your leadership. If you lead her into danger or pain, she will never trust you to lead again and you’ve blown it. Here’s an example: If you climbed a tree, and you try to pull her up, that can be quite fun for her. But if you lead her up the tree and she falls, she will never trust you again.